Hooking Up? Important Safety Tips to Consider

Safety always comes first—that quote couldn’t be more accurate in today’s modern world. When we talk about safety, we are not just concerned about using protection and your physical wellbeing.

Let’s face it. The availability of hookup apps and sites has made it easier to find casual sex than ever. However, it has also brought new problems.

It’s not surprising that online hookups have stirred the fear in women of being sexually and physically assaulted. Yet, men also risk being drugged and taken advantage of, not to mention the risk of STDs.

That’s why you should take the necessary measures to prevent anything regrettable. Here are some safety hookup tips you must keep in mind.

1. Talk about expectations beforehand
   Clear communication is a crucial part of hookups. Talking about your expectations beforehand can make the whole experience less awkward and more unforgettable for both parties. 
   
   When writing your hookup text messages, let the other person know what is allowed and is not. You should hook up with the other person only if there’s an effort to understand your sexual preferences. 
   
2. Don’t give your contact details until you are prepared
   In today’s modern world, you only need a person’s name and contact number to know all about them. Don’t give out your contact details until you’re confident you are not dealing with a stalker. After all, harassment is a real thing.
   
   Some sites like ShagToday allows users to use anonymous names, so you can protect your identity.
   
3. Always go for a video call 
   Your hookup can easily copy photos from a random social media profile online to catfish you. This is where having a video call comes in handy. It will help you confirm that it is the same person you see in the photos. 
   
   Also, a video call would help you understand more about the other person before hooking up.
   
4. Meet in public first
   It does not need to be anything fancy like Starbucks. A local coffee shop that is near for both of you would be alright. Meeting up in a public location will allow you to see how the other person treats others and their behavior in social settings.
   
   Real-life scenarios reveal more things about your hookup than a chat or video call can do. 
   
5. Stick to what you are most comfortable with
   There is nothing wrong with having a few drinks on your date. But it will help if you keep your limits in mind and don’t feel pressured to drink only because your date is drinking.
   
   Avoid taking drugs before or during the first time date, especially with someone new, as drugs could change your perception of reality. 
   
6. Always trust your instincts
   If you feel uncomfortable during your hookup date, trust your guts and feel free to leave or cut off any communication with the girl who’s making you feel unsafe. Don’t worry about looking rude—your safety is crucial, and your date must understand that. 

Hookups are certainly memorable encounters with lots of benefits. However, make sure you do it safely. The tips we mentioned above will help you have a safe hookup!